Please forgive me if this has been mentioned,
as I didn't read all 6 pages of this thread...
but I would NOT listen to a dealer or auto mfr on this subject. (I have about 10 years in the Car Business, and that is what the folks who rolled their Explorers did - after the tires blew out from having TOO LITTLE pressure!)
Auto Mfr's recommend a lower pressure than do tire mfr's because it gives the vehicle a softer ride, and makes it less likely to go up on 2 wheels in the rollover tests.
IMHO, as a "general" rule, for "typical" (35 to 50 lb max rec) tires, I would stay at around 5 lbs or so under the TIRE MFR's max rec pressure. For those of us with 2500s with factory tires, I agree with the consensus... personally, I run 45 lbs front, 50 lbs rear, cuz I do frequent 4k lb towing. Going with 30 or 32 lbs on a tire that is made for substantially more pressure puts way too much stress on the sidewalls, and compromises handling and gas mileage.
Overinflation is just as bad, or worse, with respect to safety!
Someone already mentioned running a 2500 at 80 lbs without a load, I am sure... "...like a rock..."
Just my .02 cents...
Seven